Thanks for your comment. It is striking how different it is to approach men about their behavior now; I think a decade of doing it presenting as a man helped me build some thicker skin without much risk. Now, there’s a lot more risk, but at least I can approach it with more resilience. Of course, none of this should be necessary!

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