That’s an important and critical question; but in my public writing, she’s asked to keep her experiences with my transition private. I’m happy to respect her wishes. Obviously, if I weren’t respecting her privacy, I’d have a lot to say. If you’re interested in this topic, and not aware of it already, checkout r/mypartneristrans on Reddit. There’s a wonderful community of support there. https://www.reddit.com/r/mypartneristrans/

Professor of programming + learning + design + justice at the University of Washington Information School. Trans; she/her. #BlackLivesMatter.